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How Do You Set The Tone For Your Day?

Christi Hegstad September 6th, 2019

“You can allow yourself to become paralyzed by fear of rejection, or you can go out there and astonish the world. But you don’t get to do both.” – Robin Sharma

Robin Sharma’s latest book, The 5am Club, surprised me.

Although I have a solid and longstanding morning practice in place (which I’ve written about many times, including here), I am somewhat obsessed with learning how others start their days with intention.

While I expected to gain new morning-focused ideas or inspiration with this book, what I wasn’t expecting – and honestly, what I gained more of – were the great insights into leadership, creative clarity, and mastery. I started with a library copy of The 5am Club and ended up purchasing the book because there were so many lines I wanted to highlight!

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I typically wake up at 5:30am, but for the past two weeks as I’ve been reading the book, I’ve pushed my wakeup time to 5am. The difference this has produced in my days has also surprised me! I will share more in my upcoming newsletter (email me if you’d like to receive this!).

One other surprise: this book is written as a leadership parable, a style I have never really embraced (give me straight nonfiction or a sweeping novel, but don’t try blending the two, I guess! ?). Even still, it captured my interest all the way through.

Sharma offers great thoughts about living on purpose and making a positive difference in the lives of others, and I loved the reminder to avoid making assumptions, too. We never know what’s going on behind the scenes in someone’s life.

Are you an early riser? What helps you start your day off with positivity and purpose? Share your thoughts below or on Instagram or Facebook!

Christi Hegstad, PhD, PCC is The Certified Executive + Personal Coach for difference-making achievers! Clarify your vision, free up time, and confidently reach bold, compelling goals that matter! Contact us today for coaching, speaking, and Mastermind opportunities, or click here and fill in the blue box to join our email community.

Naming Your Guiding Principles

Christi Hegstad September 4th, 2019

Do you have a set of Guiding Principles for your life?

Essentially, your Guiding Principles are your personal ‘rules to live by’ – operating procedures to keep front and center as you work, live, and engage with others.

I currently have a set of eight brief principles that I keep on a document with my vision statement, purpose statement, values, and Bold Goals. I review this document each morning for a daily reminder of who/how I want to be in the world.

Having a succinct list of life guidelines is useful in so many ways. One of mine, for example, is “Decide And Take Action.” This came to me years ago after exhausting myself with indecision too many times! Since then, whenever I catch myself suffering from ‘analysis paralysis’ or avoiding a decision, I remember my principle. It reminds me to make a decision, then immediately take an action in favor of that decision (reducing any chance of ‘buyer’s remorse).

Consider your own personal list of Guiding Principles. I encourage my coaching clients to keep their lists between 5-10 principles, prioritizing those that really mean the most at this time. Re-evaluate your list once or twice a year and revise as necessary.

What’s a brief, easily-remembered, one-liner that would go on your list of Guiding Principles? Share one of yours below!

Christi Hegstad, PhD, PCC is The Certified Executive + Personal Coach for difference-making achievers! Clarify your vision, free up time, and confidently reach bold, compelling goals that matter! Contact us today for coaching, speaking, and Mastermind opportunities, or click here and fill in the blue box to join our email community.

How Does Your Goal Help Others?

Christi Hegstad September 1st, 2019

When I’m helping a coaching client set a goal, I always ask a few questions about the purpose behind it:

Why is the goal important to you?

How will your work or life be different once the goal is achieved?

Who else might be positively impacted by this goal?

As I’ve said a million times, reconnecting with your purpose – your why – is the greatest motivator I know. And if you’re like most of my coaching clients, you want to know that your goal not only benefits you, but others as well.

This week, connect your goal to something greater than yourself.

For example, a current client set a goal around strengthening his leadership skills.

Not only does this benefit him in terms of streamlining his workdays and feeling more confident, it helps:

His employees. They become better leaders, both through the responsibilities he delegates to them and the leadership he models for them.

His organization. As his department improves, so does the company culture and bottom line.

His customers. As he and his employees become stronger leaders, they are able to assess and care for client needs more quickly and effectively.

His family. His wife and children will be glad to see him less stressed, working fewer hours, and feeling better about himself.

And the list continues on.

How will achieving your goal benefit others? Let me know – and more importantly, remind yourself. You’ll get an instant motivation boost!

Christi Hegstad, PhD, PCC is The Certified Executive + Personal Coach for difference-making achievers! Clarify your vision, free up time, and confidently reach bold, compelling goals that matter! Contact us today for coaching, speaking, and Mastermind opportunities, or click here and fill in the blue box to join our email community.

What Are Your Priorities This Season?

Christi Hegstad August 30th, 2019

“You have to decide what your highest priorities are and have the courage – pleasantly, smilingly, unapologetically – to say no to other things. And the way you do that is by having a bigger ‘yes’ burning inside.” – Stephen Covey

How true is this?!

Our core values tend to stay fairly constant over time, but our priorities change. As we approach a new month and season, what do you consider your top priorities? What is worth putting on your to-do list and truly deserving of your attention? What would you say ‘Absolutely YES!’ to versus ‘Hmmm…maybe’ or ‘Heck no!’?

I have spent some time evaluating this for myself over the past few weeks, and I have come up with my short list of top priorities. They’re a little different than they were 3 months ago, and *quite* different from a year ago.

This check-in with myself is so helpful, and I encourage you to consider it, too.

Decide what’s worth your ‘absolute yes’ for this season in your life. Let go of comparison and FOMO and all that other stuff, knowing that you are honoring a deeper, bigger YES. Your future self will thank you!

Christi Hegstad, PhD, PCC is an executive and personal coach helping professionals achieve bold, inspiring goals enabling them to make a positive, purposeful difference! Click here and fill in the blue box to join our email community or contact us to discuss coaching possibilities!

(Re)Start and Finish Strong!

Christi Hegstad August 27th, 2019

Over the weekend I listened to Ryan Hall, holder of multiple distance running records, being interviewed on the EntreLeadership podcast. His perspective on topics like passion, resilience, and pursuing your life’s work enthralled me.

Having already discussed the importance of vision and goals, my ears perked up even more when asked how he prepares his mindset for a critical 26-mile race.

Hall didn’t skip a beat: “Focus on the mile you’re in.”

He described how if he stood at the starting line anticipating how painful or exhausting mile 23 would be, he’d never begin; instead, he prepares and trains to the extent possible, then focuses on the current mile – the current step – to move forward.

Whether you’re working toward a 4-minute mile, a particular revenue, a leadership metric, or some other compelling goal, consider Hall’s advice!

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Time For A Refresh!

As you revisit your 2019 goals, you may find you’re not quite where you expected to be – but that’s no reason to give up. We still have plenty of time left in the year!

But as you know, it will go by fast. Now is the time to act.

Here are 5 tips to help you (re)start, and ultimately finish, the year strong!

1. Start fresh.

Rather than going back over the action plan you created eons ago, map out a new one. (You can always compare it to the old one later.) Consider the next 18 weeks – aka, the remainder of 2019 – its own mini-year, and start from the current moment. As Hall advised, focus on the mile you’re in!

Be sure to check out my When Your Goals Take A Detour article if you need some help with this.

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2. Gain small, quick wins.

Spark your motivation by completing a few quick-and-easy tasks right away. You’ll build momentum and start to develop a habit of completion, which can serve you well moving forward.

Watch that this doesn’t become a long-term solution, however. At some point, you’ve got to do the big things, too! Just maybe not right off the bat.

 

3. Leverage your personality.

I used to lament my ‘all or nothing’ personality and how it could prompt me to be completely, 100%, all-in over something … or else avoid it altogether. Nowadays I embrace this quirk: If I am feeling energized about a set of actions for my top-priority goals, I ride the wave – and instead of criticizing myself if it’s short-lived, I challenge myself to adapt or tweak it until I’m energized again.

This mindset shift (not to mention the self-compassion) has worked wonders! What tendencies hold you back that you could leverage instead?

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4. Build accountability into your plan.

I largely credit accountability for any of the significant goals I’ve reached. Among my favorite methods: working with my coach, checking in with my mastermind group, and tracking daily actions in my bullet journal. Some of my clients serve as additional accountability partners for each other – people working on similar goals with whom they text daily or weekly with updates.

Choose what works for you! Just know you don’t have to go it alone.

5. Reconnect with your why. Every day.

The first thing I do each day when I arrive to the office is what I call a 5-Point Scan: I flip to my one-page document that houses my Vision, Purpose Statement, Guiding Principles, Values, and Bold Goals. This action takes me less than a minute but reminds me every single day why I do the work I am about to do.

Reconnecting with your why – your purpose – is still the #1 motivator I know.

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Whatever bold and inspired goal you’re aiming for this year, restart it now. Don’t worry about what you haven’t done yet or how much you have left to do. Instead, prepare to the extent possible, then focus on the mile you’re in.

Let’s run this race with positivity and purpose – and finish strong!

Need help clarifying your action plan – and maybe a motivation boost, too? A one-time Kickstart Coaching Session might be just the ticket! Contact me to discuss possibilities.

 

When Your Goals Take A Detour

Christi Hegstad August 25th, 2019

“I’ve taken a detour with my goals, but I am ready to get back on track!”

I am hearing this comment quite often lately. If you can relate, today’s post is for you!

Last week I encouraged you not to give up on your goals, even if you’re not quite where you expected to be at this point in the year. This week, I want you to let go of any of the ‘heaviness’ you may have attached to your detour.

No more “I never finish what I start” or “Why can’t I accomplish what I set out to do?” or “I used to be so on top of things.”

Nope, not allowed anymore.

This week, start fresh!

You know the feeling of opening up a brand new journal or notebook? That clean-slate sense of possibility and freshness?

That’s what we want to recreate with your goals.

Let go of any failed attempts, detours, or negative self-talk that hold you back. That was then; we’re focusing on this day forward.

And if they stubbornly linger, draw a line down the center of a piece of paper. Write any unhelpful statements your mind wants to repeat in the left column, then write the opposite for each in the right column.

Now, fold your page so that you only see the right column. Better yet, cut the left column off and toss it!

No time like the present. Now is your time. The beginning, as Shelley reminds us, is always today.

Christi Hegstad, PhD, PCC is an executive coach helping leaders and professionals achieve Bold Goals with clarity, confidence, and meaningful action! Join our community: Click here and fill in the blue box or send us an email

Commitment – and Recommitment – To Your Goal

Christi Hegstad August 18th, 2019
“Goals give you a sense of meaning and purpose, a clear sense of direction. Every step you take toward your goals increases your belief that you can set and achieve even bigger goals in the future.”
Brian Tracy

One of the greatest myths in the professional world is that of the ‘overnight success’.

What may look like instant success on the outside doesn’t credit the behind-the-scenes truth: the thousands of hours mastering the craft, the countless failures transformed into learning lessons, the rejections, the losses, the ‘maybe next times’.

Success doesn’t appear overnight. It appears with discipline, consistency, and every small victory we make along the way!

This week, recommit to your most important goal.

As the year continues to fly by, you may find you’re not as far along on your goals as you’d hoped to be by now.

You might think, “Well, I guess this just isn’t the year.”

I challenge you to reconsider.

Reconnect with why the goal matters to you. Imagine how achieving it will make you feel, how your life will be different as a result, and/or how it will help others. Rededicate yourself to your purposeful pursuit.

You may need to redo your action plan, but not necessarily your goal. And  please reach out if I may help! As a recent conference leader said when introducing me as a speaker, “This is Christi, and helping people achieve bold and meaningful goals is her jam!” 🙂

Christi Hegstad, PhD, PCC is an executive coach helping leaders and professionals achieve Bold Goals with clarity, confidence, and meaningful action! Join our community: Click here and fill in the blue box or send us an email

 

Decide And Take Action

Christi Hegstad August 11th, 2019

Last week, I attended a fantastic conference – one that had me revisiting my purpose, goals, and business framework. (I will share takeaways from the event on my blog soon!)

A key word appearing multiple times in my notes: DECIDE.

You can find great power in simply making up your mind!

This week, make a decision.

What decision have you put off? Where have you been waffling? What’s something you know you need or want to do, but just aren’t doing?

Decide. Then take action in favor of that decision.

Decide that you will achieve your Bold Goal. Then map out the daily and weekly activities that will make that accomplishment inevitable.

Decide to foster a strong and confident mindset. Then block 20 minutes each day for reading, journaling, or visualizing.

Decide to make the remainder of 2019 outstanding. Then secure the support (class, coach, accountability partner, etc.) to help ensure your success.

Decide! Start today. Start now.

Christi Hegstad, PhD, PCC is an executive coach helping leaders and professionals achieve Bold Goals with clarity, confidence, and meaningful action! Join our community: Click here and fill in the blue box or send us an email

Mastering Focus, 30 Minutes At A Time

Christi Hegstad August 10th, 2019

“To produce at your peak level, you need to work for extended periods with full concentration on a single task free from distraction.” – Cal Newport

Easy enough, right?
Ok, since Newport has written multiple books to try to help us achieve this, maybe it’s not quite so easy after all.
It doesn’t have to be as difficult as we may make it, though.
This week, block one period of time for focused, undistracted work.
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If you already consider yourself a master focuser, you can up-level this suggestion to one or more blocks per day.
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But if you’re like many and feel continuously distracted, start small.
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Block a 30-minute segment on your calendar, head to a private conference room or the corner of a coffee shop or your back deck, and bring only the project you want to focus on.
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Consider what tends to distract you, and determine in advance how you can minimize or eliminate it for that period. For example, if you pick up your phone with every notification, leave the phone in your car during this time.
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Let me know how this goes for you! I have found that even brief periods of truly focused time works wonders – and often prompts a great sense of flow as well.
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Christi Hegstad, PhD, PCC is an executive coach helping you design your ideal vision and achieve it with clarity, confidence, and meaningful action! Join our community: Click here and fill in the blue box or send us an email

Taking In Information vs. Taking Action

Christi Hegstad July 29th, 2019
If you looked at my bookshelves and podcast subscriptions, you might guess that I consume a great deal of content.
You’d be right. I loooooove to learn.
But I read/listen with a highlighter or journal nearby. I always challenge myself to take at least one point and put it into action, try out a new perspective or behavior, and/or share what I’ve learned with you all!
I don’t want to consume just for the sake of consuming; I want to turn that knowledge into purposeful action. As Ryan Michler wrote, “If information was all we needed, we’d all be millionaires with chiseled six-pack abs.”
This week, I challenge you to take your knowledge, thinking, or learning a step further.
This week, take a specific, significant action. Click “Submit” on the article you’ve been writing. Call the potential client you know you can serve. Hire the coach. Upgrade the software.
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Give thanks for the knowledge – then take the action!
Christi Hegstad, PhD, PCC is an executive coach helping you design your ideal vision and achieve it with clarity, confidence, and meaningful action! Join our community: Click here and fill in the blue box or send us an email
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