The question isn’t so much ‘Are you parenting the right way?’ as it is ‘Are you the adult that you want your child to grow up to be?’
Brene Brown
What do you wish to see more of in the world? Are you modeling that consistently?
When I first read this line in Brene Brown’s excellent book, Daring Greatly, it stopped me in my tracks. It instantly provides a shift in perspective – away from expectations and toward authenticity, away from blame and toward accountability.
Whether in parenting, business, or another aspect of life, choosing to model that which you wish to see in the world is nearly always the most effective way to lead and to prompt change.
We’ve reached Lesson #7: Model Your Vision. Rather than constantly worrying about the ‘shoulds’ and the external measures and the general consensus, ask yourself if you are actively, consciously being what you’d like to see more of in the world. You’ll find it much easier to honor your values, work in integrity, fulfill your purpose, and make your difference this way.
As I celebrate 14 years in business this month, I’m sharing 14 lessons – one per post – that I’ve learned (many the hard way) over the years. I hope they help you work with meaning and live with purpose!